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My Super Ex Girlfriend

"what is this i'm feelin ?, i just can't explain!"


Yesterday I decided to meet up with my friend and ex-girlfriend, Juliet, upon her invitation. Why not? It's been a long while since we've seen each other. I am not excited to meet her as my ex-gf but as my friend from way back in High School. I realized that we are really better off as friends. Hmmm, so how did our love story started!?

(whoops, it's not easy for me to open up. but i will do it this time)

She was my very first girlfriend (could she be my only one though?). When we were in HS we're very good friends, I even used to defend her from her enemies. Come college, we went to the same school but was never classmates. It was brief, I just texted her if she can be my girlfriend after I read her Friendster message that she likes me. She promptly replied "YES," and there it was. I had an instant GF. We only met each other again after 3 years since we entered college. We met at school. Our relationship was okay at first. No pressure, no demands. It was smooth sailing, but as time goes by, we had our ups and downs. I decided to broke up with her. I realized that i can't bear with commitments. But it seems like, we are each others' only choice. We went in an on-off relationship which lasted for 3 years. We did not communicate after that. But I courted her again last 2009, and we became a couple "yet-again." But I have an issue with commitments. I was too self-centered. We decided to be off-again but with a set-up that we are still a couple but we there's no commitment at all. 



Last March 2011, I received a phone call from her. Informing me of what happened to her. She told me that she's a mom now. She gave birth last February. All of my questions were answered by the confirmation from her. She did not communicate with me and with all of our friends, since she was already pregnant and she wasn't ready to tell us. The father of her son remains unknown to us. She would not name names. 



When we met yesterday she narrated her stories. Her feelings. She decided to tell me the father of her son, she said it was a friend of her brother-in-law, but none of her family knows it not even the father of her son. She told me that she's been wanting to put in my name as the father of her son, instead of putting UNKNOWN. I did not give any comments. I don't know what to say or feel. But no matter what happen, I will forever be her friend. I wish her luck and happiness and success in LIFE.

Comments

  1. bulakbolero.sgMay 19, 2011 at 2:35 PM

    i think, after this post, the father will discover that he has a child to Juliet. lol.

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  2. AnonymousMay 19, 2011 at 6:03 PM

    Tama lang ang ginawa mong hindi sumagot sa kanya. Mahirap um-oo, mahirap din humindi. Pero kung ako ikaw, sasabihin ko sya ng: Ayaw ko nga! Ano ko hilo??!! Hahaha.

    -Suplado-

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  3. EngrMoksMay 19, 2011 at 9:18 PM

    No Comment. yan ang sagot mo... mahirap sagutin yan, kailangan ng mahaba habang pagiisip.

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  4. BinoMay 19, 2011 at 10:41 PM

    tama! walang komento. tikom ang bibig. maging maingat

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  5. Ahrjhay ConteMay 20, 2011 at 12:44 AM

    What a revelation!! For me, you should stick to what you think and believe is right and everything will follow!!! =)

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  6. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 9:23 AM

    bulakbolero.sg said...

    i think, after this post, the father will discover that he has a child to Juliet. lol.

    -- hehe... sana nga malaman nya na.

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  7. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 9:24 AM

    Supladong Office Boy said...

    Tama lang ang ginawa mong hindi sumagot sa kanya. Mahirap um-oo, mahirap din humindi. Pero kung ako ikaw, sasabihin ko sya ng: Ayaw ko nga! Ano ko hilo??!! Hahaha.

    --pero diba SILENCE means Yes! hehe. "Ayaw ko nga! Ano ko hilo??!" - magamit nga.

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  8. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 9:25 AM

    MOKS™ said...

    No Comment. yan ang sagot mo... mahirap sagutin yan, kailangan ng mahaba habang pagiisip.

    --tama. dapat bawat desisyon pinagiisipan.

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  9. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 9:26 AM

    Bino said...

    tama! walang komento. tikom ang bibig. maging maingat

    --oo naman. dapat maingat lagi. hehe

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  10. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 9:27 AM

    Ahrjhay Conte said...

    What a revelation!! For me, you should stick to what you think and believe is right and everything will follow!!! =)

    --explosive ba? di naman. hehe.. thanks sa words of encouragement.

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  11. Kris EdisonMay 20, 2011 at 12:49 PM

    @bonbon: Pano mo ginawang ganyan yung mga picture? Grabe ang emotion ah? Sorry pero sa picture ko naramdaman na parang.. uyyyyy.. hahaha

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  12. BonbonMay 20, 2011 at 11:10 PM

    Cryptic Kris said...

    @bonbon: Pano mo ginawang ganyan yung mga picture? Grabe ang emotion ah? Sorry pero sa picture ko naramdaman na parang.. uyyyyy.. hahaha


    --lomo lomo app yan sa ipod ko.

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  13. UnknownMay 21, 2011 at 8:51 PM

    medyo seryoso ata yung request nya, good luck pla sa pagiging mommy na nya

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  14. BonbonMay 21, 2011 at 11:40 PM

    Keatondrunk said...

    medyo seryoso ata yung request nya, good luck pla sa pagiging mommy na nya

    -- oo nga eh.. hanggang ninong lang siguro ako.. hehe

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  15. ka buteMay 22, 2011 at 5:12 PM

    mas maganda sana kung may song sa background na somewhere down the road... hehe. naki-comment lang. (*-*)

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  16. BonbonMay 22, 2011 at 7:43 PM

    ka bute said...
    mas maganda sana kung may song sa background na somewhere down the road... hehe. naki-comment lang. (*-*)

    --oo nga no, dapat meron musical scoring hehe.

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  17. UnknownMay 22, 2011 at 8:11 PM

    Mahirap ang mag ka girl friend- ika nga ng Mcdonalds commercial..

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  18. BonbonMay 22, 2011 at 9:06 PM

    tim said...

    Mahirap ang mag ka girl friend- ika nga ng Mcdonalds commercial..

    --tama.. at mas mahirap magka-instant anak...
    tnx tim..

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  19. AnonymousMay 24, 2011 at 4:01 PM

    Ayoko sang magcomment kasi hindi ko alam ang buong story. hehe.. pero hindi ko talaga mapigilan ang sarili ko. Medyo opinionated lang to ha. Baka kasi may ma-offend. I'm just trying to speak my mind.

    Hmm... sige, ako na ang kontrabida. Hehe..

    You're friends with your ex. Walang problema dun. Pero yung sabihin nyang gusto nyang pangalan mo ang ilagay at ipakilalang tatay ng bata, parang out of line na yata yun. That's a bit immature. Why not tell the REAL father of the kid? Malay nya, kilalanin nga naman ng lalaki na anak nya yung bata. Or better yet, tell her family. Sabihin nya sa pamilya nya kung sino ang ama ng bata.

    Sa opinion ko lang, during troubled times such as this one, ang family lang talaga ang makakatulong. You're a good friend, obviously.. and that's why she considered you. But I don't think that she has any right to even consider. because it is HER mess, not yours.

    It's a good move na "no comment" ka. Pag-isipang mabuti ang gagawin. In the end naman kasi, it's your decision. Take time to think things over.

    Medyo bitchy ba? hehe.. Sabi ko nga, ako na ang kontrabida. :)

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  20. Kira PermunianMay 26, 2011 at 4:22 AM

    I really took time to read this post as the title intrigued me "super". LMAO!ang daming "no comment" feedback but they still commented! - a sort of trouble in my mind regarding that..

    Hats off to you for saying this phrase "But no matter what happen, I will forever be her friend. I wish her luck and happiness and success in LIFE."

    Just one question popped up from my damn mind. What was in the mind of your ex to meet you and tell you the story? so uh-oh

    Anyway Bon, I've proven in this post how nice you are and how good you are as everybodys friend. Heads up!

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